LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th! We want to see you there! Tix & info:…cast-mixtape/

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Are you an “auntie”, an “elder”, or an “old-head” and are any of those terms offensive? We explore ageism and mortality and talk shit about old exes. Have you heard of “n*ggerfishing”? (It’s a thing) Iggy Azaelia has but this song isn’t about her. And finally, women’s empowerment - what even is that shit?

This week’s hot list: Queen is taking baths now, men never take baths on TV (there's a reason), J. nerds out on For All Nerds Show, our live show is 12/10 and we got dents! Catfishing gets weirder, Iggy Azalea and J.Lo have big booties so it’s cool (this is sarcasm), ageism for everyone, Be My Eyes app, Dom lemon can never leave the pit - stop asking, women’s empowerment is not another word for feminism - let’s discuss!

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Check out J.’s guest spot on For All Nerds Show (fka FanBros Show)!: Fanbros – Size-wars-rebel-block-party-feat-janicia-f-of-tea-with-queen-and-j

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This week’s closing clip features Cardi B:…68218793988/video/1

Editorial support by Sam Riddell
Engineering by Joshua Perez aka @fazefunk on IG

Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at

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