#206 Your Network Is NOT Your Net Worth

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We talk about dismantling white supremacist patriarchal capitalism, but how do you conduct business and topple the system at the same damn time? How do you resist the system and still network? We’re talking about building community, the sh!t is old as time.

This week’s hot list: #PodinLiveNYC recap, laughing and sh!t, branding, community building vs. toxic networking, the significance of queer spaces for non-queer people, She’s Gotta Have It is back on Netflix (mmmkay), podcasting, event planning, event management, and not being a fvcking asshole

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

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SAVE THE DATE for our 4th annual Juneteenth Celebration on June 19th 6-9pm! Details to come!

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Check out portraits from #PodinLiveNYC! If you took a portrait with Dom you may shoot him an email with the number of the pic and he’ll send you back a copy of your pic without the watermark. Please be sure to tag and credit him in any reposts of your pic @sindayiganza on instagram: www.sindayiganza.com/Client-Galleri…vN5p/i-5STtqJH

Listen to We Gotta Have It! Where we reviewed season one of the Netflix series “She’s Gotta Have It” : soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/sets/we-gotta-have-it-teawithqj

This week’s closing clip features Bill Nye the science guy going off on you hoes:www.instagram.com/p/BxaptVXgCtQ/?u…id=1xidtlqj3oisi

This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#205 Get A Loadah This Guy

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… What do dating profiles have do to with class, gender and misogynoir? Nothing, just everything. Then, how to say no to colorism in hollywood, how the UN is dealing with wartime sexual violence, and last (we’ll give a spoiler warning when it’s time) but Game of Thrones is a fiction fantasy show that’s on that real time real life bull shit.

Content warning - discussion of sexual violence as an act of war 52:25 to 58:20

This week’s hot list: Tinder, BLK, bi-sexuality and dating apps, Nathalie Emmanuel and being Black on Game of Thrones, the Princess and the Frog film we didn’t ask for, Universoul Circus, animal rights, ableism, accessibility, BTAC, non-binary, Xena, Afrolatinx erasure, United Nations takes one step forward, Tr*mp takes it two steps back, end money bail, #FreeBlackMamas, National Bail Out, Game of Thrones and how racism finds its way to fiction and fantasy, plus mad other ish!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

EPISODE SPONSOR
Learn more about “Love Your Loud… At Work: Ways to Maneuver Work Sh!t As A Boisterous Black Woman” e-book at www.loudgirlmovement.com

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
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EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
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DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
JOIN US at #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meetup Saturday, 5/11 4pm FREE.99 with RSVP! www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-…ets-60457502016

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Check out #FreeBlackMamasSyracuse
GoFundMe: www.gofundme.com/freeblackmamassyracuse
For more stats and info:
Contact doula4aqueen@gmail.com | IG @villagebirthintl 
nationalbailout.org/
www.prisonpolicy.org/reports/pie2018women.html

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Listen to Vagesteem’s “I’ve Got A Story To Tell” featuring abortion stories: Vagesteem – I-got-a-story-to-tell

Read J.’s review of Vita Ayala’s comic Xena Warrior Princess: www.youdontreadcomics.com/comics/2019/…s?rq=janicia

Listen to Marsha’s Plate’s “#79 #BTAC2019Leveling Up: Trans 2.0? Featuring Lain & Jekksyn” two non-binary activits: Danella-xuc – 79-btac2019-leveling-up-trans-20

Listen to Marsha’s Plate for a discussion with parents of a non-binary person “#80: #BTAC2019 A Plate For Parents”: Danella-xuc – 80-btac2019-plate-for-the-parents

Watch “Boss: The Black Experience In Business” - www.pbs.org/wnet/boss/

This week’s closing clip is from @JordanCampa on twitter: twitter.com/jordancampa/status/…31095744409611?s=11

This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#204 Where Are The Blaccents?

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Why being a POC storyteller isn’t enough if you’re just trying to prove how white you are; Then a messy ass diasporadical natural hair drama, and finally audio from the dopest panel at SXSW on blaccents and wackccents

This week’s hot list: Watch Ramy on Hulu, immigrant narratives on TV, Islam and Muslims on TV, natural hair journey’s and minding your business, 4C gang gang, listen to Lizzo, get comfortable in your space, Black Americans, continental Africans and toxic white influence, a whole ass education on AAVE and language in podcasting, what is a smart voice, recognizing your privilege, and mad other shit.

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
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DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
JOIN US at #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meetup Saturday, 5/11 4pm FREE.99 with RSVP! www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-…ets-60457502016

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Listen to our natural hair episode #183 Wash And Go Where?: Tea-with-queen-and-j – 183-wash-and-go

This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with “Where Are The Podcast Blaccents” panel produced by Sam Riddell for SXSW 2019

#203 No, You Move Your Campus!

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Dating a racist is not just for white people, HBCU’s are not just for Black people, and we’re in the future where technology is racist and we still can’t teleport. Doom and Gloom!

Content Warning: Letter re anti-Black partner is read from minute 22:05 to 24:03

This week’s hot list: Revisiting that ‘what is a Black person’ convo we had a while back (bi-racial edition), How ignorant does your partner have to be before you break up with them? Howard University been around since 1877 but Tom and Karen got dogs that need to poop, spoiler alert - TSA scanners are racially bias, go see Rafiki, watch Beyonce’s Homecoming doc on Netflix if you like nice things.

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

EPISODE SPONSOR
Purple Panties podcast: www.purplepantiespodcast.com

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
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DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
JOIN US at #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meetup Saturday, 5/11 4pm FREE.99 with RSVP! www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-…ets-60457502016

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Check out Dope Queen Cosmetics!
Site: dopequeens.com
IG: www.instagram.com/dopequeenscosmetics/

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Watch the trailer for Rafiki then find out where it’s playing in your city: www.youtube.com/watch?v=7M_-ucSaFpU

Listen to Inner Hoe Uprising “A Black Interabled Love Story” featuring Brad & Noelle of @wheellifestoriesInnerhoeuprising – A-black-interabled-love-story

Learn more about Brad & Noelle and Wheel Life Stories: www.wheellifestories.com

Watch our friends Rod & Karen of The Black Guy Who Tips on Vice News: www.youtube.com/watch?v=2S4ND_-OcDU

Book Recommendations: The Body Is Not An Apology, I’m A Pretty Little Black Girl, Piecing Me Together, I’m Still Here: Black Dignity In A World Made for Whiteness, Well-Read Black Girl (an anthology)

Watch “Bi-racial girl” by Sean Fury at your own risk: www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJu088Kd6ac

TSA body scanner bias: www.rawstory.com/2019/04/tsa-agen…-scanners-might/

Howard University & Gentrification: thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing…ve-the-campus-after

This week’s closing clip features Diamond Stylz spreading the word about #PodinLiveNYC! First aired on her podcast Marsha’s Plate episode #78 “More House and More Understanding”: Danella-xuc – 78-more-house-and-more-understanding

This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with engineering support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#202 Where The Black Girls Are

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… how do you navigate anti-Blackness when it’s coming from inside the house? Loving yourself in a world that don’t fvck with you. Also ableism, fertility, and who can joke about that sh*t.

This week’s hot list: NYC is crowded as hell, drink your water, do your meditations, Black girl confidence, who can joke about pregnancy and fertility, reproductivity and ableism (the bad isms ruin everything), respect oral traditions and say our names when you quote us, do Black sh!t, tailor your social media for you, therapy is your friend, and more!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
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DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
JOIN US at #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meetup Saturday, 5/11 4pm FREE.99 with RSVP! www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-…ets-60457502016

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
We’re were on Medium Popcorn podcast last week reviewing the classic film “Set It Off” Listen now! www.stitcher.com/podcast/medium-p…llins/e/59956334

Listen to Cosas De La Vida Real podcast (IG @cosas.podcast)! Ep. Macuilli: Anti-Blackness in Brown Communities: cosaspodcast.libsyn.com/ep-xx-anti-bl…n-communities

Listen to writer Lindy West discuss the experience with a twitter troll that inspired some of the hulu series Shrill. Her story in Part one of This American Life ep545: www.thisamericanlife.org/545/if-you-d…-in-all-caps

Follow The Free Black Women’s Library on facebook: www.facebook.com/pg/FreeBlackWoma…ef=page_internal

This week’s closing clip features @RandallOtisTV’s ‘ASMR for white liberals’: twitter.com/RandallOtisTV/statu…19938248704/video/1

This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima.

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#201 Doing Hair In The Living Room (with Money)

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We indulge in one of our favorite past times, watching TV and tearing it to shreds. Full of mixed feelings about the hit Hulu series ‘Shrill’, we ask does Black body image matter on a show about body image? Is this show low key/high key about white men? Or the 53%? We’re like joking but super serious.

This week’s hot list: Watch Shrill on Hulu if you’re feeling froggy, dating, attractiveness & body image, where did Fran get her rompers tho? Black friends & emotional labor, fatphobia is not limited to “straight” folks, white men love camera time and white writers love giving it to them and mad other sh*t.

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
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DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
SAVE THE DATE
#PodinLiveNYC 5/11/19 4pm
Details to come

GUEST
Be sure to check out our guest Money on all social media & listen to her amazing podcast! 
Money’s Twitter & Instagram: @MelanatedMoney
QueerWOC: The Podcast Twitter & Instagram: @QueerWOCpod
Podcast: @queerwoc
Website/Tumblr: queerwoc.com/

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Read more about the ‘Shrill’ pool party scene controversy:
Initial statement from Virgie Tovar: www.instagram.com/p/BvSTNqVhpaN/?u…_source=ig_embed
Shrill episode 4 writer Sam Irby’s twitter response: twitter.com/wordscience/status/1109234345372516352
Ijeoma Oluo’s twitter thread: twitter.com/IjeomaOluo/status/1109212516624687104
Final statement from activist/writer Virgie Tovar: www.virgietovar.com/blog
Virgie Tovar’s Ted Talk from July 2017: www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZnsamRfxtY

This week’s closing clip features Congresswoman Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez speaking at a House Financial Services Committee meeting: twitter.com/briantylercohen/sta…00996282343424?s=21

This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#200 Humble Is Not For Black Women

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… It’s our 200th fvcking episode!!! We talk about how we engage with celebrity death on social media, conspiracy theories, editing Black women out of history, fake diversity initiatives, along with our live broadcast at SXSW

Content Warning: Nipsey Hussle discussion on death, murder, violence from 17:24 - 1:01:35

This week’s hot list: Nipsey Hussle, white supremacy is not a conspiracy theory, homophobia, when flawed people die, “cancel culture” or “accountability culture”, dealing with death, Claudette Colvin, Boomerang, Harriet Tubman’s disabled erasure, Moment in Black Hair at work, standards of professionalism for white men vs. everybody else, #FreeBlackMama’sDMV, diversity podcast races and more!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
SAVE THE DATE
#PodinLiveNYC 5/11/19 4pm
Details to come

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Help #FreeBlackMamasDMV post bail for incarcerated mothers. Learn more about the DMV initiative here: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…366m5MyQ/viewform
Learn more about the National Bail Out here: nationalbailout.org

GUESTS
Be sure to check out our guest Diamond Stylz on all social media & listen to her amazing podcast!
Diamond’s Twitter & Instagram: @DiamondStylz
Marsha’s Plate Twitter & Instagram: @MarshasPlate
Marsha’s Plate Podcast: soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/tracks

Be sure to check out our guest Estephanie on all social media & listen to her amazing podcast!
Estephanie’s website: www.cinpim.com/
Estephanie’s Twitter/Instagram: @cin_pim
Bag Ladiez Twitter: @Bag_Ladiez
Bag Ladiez Instagram: @bgladiez
Bag Ladiez website: www.bgladiez.com
Bag Ladiez Podcast: @bgladies

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

We will be doing a full spoilers review of the Hulu.com series “Shrill” on next week’s episode!

Listen to Estephanie & her cohost Lina discuss the erasure of Black Latinx women on Bag Ladiez podcast episode “Write Dem Checks Please”: Bgladies – Write-dem-checks-please

This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with engineering support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#199 Oh Word?

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Black actors have to worry about more than acting and that’s bullsh*t. Who is killing Black Lives Matter protesters? What the fvck? And Black Muslim erasure in a Muslim ban era.

This week’s hot list: We saw Us, help kids in the Bronx enjoy prom, follow @triplecripples, another perspective on gender identity, check out #blackandnonbinary and #nonbinaryisntwhite on twitter, measuring activism by white supremacist standards aint it, Black actors out here doing their own hair and makeup, buy fancy wrapping paper if you got it like that, the Nation of Islam and Black liberation, and mad other ish...

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
SAVE THE DATE
#PodinLiveNYC 5/11/19 4pm
Details to come

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Check out www.unwrp.com for luxe wrapping paper and other items.
IG www.instagram.com/unwrp/

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Learn more about the Look Good, Feel Good initiative to help Bronx students with the cost of prom: www.gofundme.com/cwy6b-look-good-feel-good

Deaths of six men tied to Ferguson protests alarm activists via NBC news: nbcnews.to/2JB5qSg

Muhiyidin Moye, BLM activist shot and killed: www.nytimes.com/2018/02/07/us/muh…lives-matter.html

Multiple Black Hollywood Actors are calling for more Hairstylist to understand their hair via Shadowandact.com buff.ly/2u4DknG

This week’s closing clip features Us/Regina Hall mashup by @amr_artz on instagram: www.instagram.com/amr_artz/p/BvXis…id=15luwwdo1l7cz

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#198 Now I'm Upset

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We explore labels, gender non-binary and why your friends ain’t really your friends; We shout out your Black male homies who unintentionally erase the fvck out of you while you’re fvcking sitting right the fvck there; And we revisit our discussion on disability and dating.

This week’s hot list: We kicked SXSW 2019’s ass, working and relationships and disability, J. is full of fun facts, gendered terms (“lady”, etc.), do your friends respect your pronouns? “Inclusivity” at the expense of Black women, does anybody acknowledge the work of Black women as work? And mad other sh!t.

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
SAVE THE DATE
#PodinLiveNYC 5/11/19 4pm
Details to come

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Listen to “Where Are The Podcast Blaccents?” panel organized by Sam Ridell for SXSW 2019: Officialsxsw – Sxsw-2019-where-are-the-podcast-blaccents

A few podcast resources:
Inner Hoe Uprising 
54 Genders or none: soundcloud.com/search?q=54%20genders%20or%20none
Agender Hoe in the Army: Innerhoeuprising – An-agender-hoe-in-the-army-robisode-1
Hoes Like to be courted: Innerhoeuprising – Hoes-that-like-to-be-courted

Also Check out Marsha’s Plate podcast and QueerWOC: The Podcast for more conversations about gender

Watch The Grapevine’s “Culture Vultures” episode: www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubjud6LZk8c

Check out Vilissa Thompson’s (@VilissaThompson) twitter thread on ableism & dating: twitter.com/VilissaThompson/sta…1105508769763598337

Check out Tina’s (@nice_white_lady) twitter thread on ableism & dating: twitter.com/Nice_White_Lady/sta…1106207362002681856

This week’s closing clip features Missy Elliot with Nicole Wray “All N My Grill”: www.youtube.com/watch?v=2NAyzeR3QtQ

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#197 You Play The Game You Play Yourself

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Are you being ableist in your relationship? Are you so woke you need a nap? Does your man like that you’re bi but only when it’s fun? And why we haven’t watched Leaving Neverland...

TW (trigger warning ): Michael Jackson conversation takes place @ 26:15- 40:15

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
AUSTIN, TX #PodinLiveSXSW - Join Tea with Queen and J., Berry of Podcasts In Color, Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate, Estephanie of Bag Ladiez, and Sam of Inner Hoe Uprising for a podcast meetup on Wednesday March 13th, from 5-8pm at Licha’s Cantina, 1306 East 6th Street, Austin, TX. OPEN TO ALL NO SXSW BADGE REQUIRED.

If you are a SXSW badge holder please check out “Where Are The Blaccents” panel on March 13th at 11:00am: schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP88534 and “Tea with Queen and J.” Live at 12:30pm: schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP102955

Other Black centered events at SXSW
3/12 Rebel & Rest: www.rosarebellion.com/sxsw-2019

3/16 Blossom & Sol Culture and Natural Hair Festival: www.blossomandsolnaturalhairfestival.com
3/16 CareFreeBlackGirl Cookout @ SXSW: www.carefreeblackgirlsxsw.splashthat.com

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Check out Grapevine’s ‘Jussie Smollett’ discussion on youtube:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=373FFDrBZRQ

Check out Women of the World Festival in Harlem through 3/17: 
Tix & info: www.apollotheater.org/calendar/?trib…ntcategory=100
Essence write up” www.essence.com/entertainment/wow-festival/

This week’s closing clip features Nina Simone discussing freedom: www.youtube.com/watch?v=373FFDrBZRQ

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima.

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#196 Hot Takes For A Living

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Are you a white person who wants me to denounce another Black person because you are wilding and always out of pocket? Are you a Black person with a pocket full of Solange hot takes? Are you somewhere scared and hiding until the current president stops presidenting. Whoever you are, wherever you at, we got it covered

This week’s hot list: Nuance is not just a word that sounds french, the power dynamics of Tamika Mallory, Louis Farrakhan and the Womens March, Solange is our Black girls delight, that Michael Cohen mess that lead to that racist Mark Meadows mess that Rashida Tlaib tried to pull us out of, who is Monica Roberts? Interpersonal labor, Yolanda Vega a NY legend, Doing something racist vs. being “a racist”, disability rights, Carrie Ann Lucas, health care, and more...

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
AUSTIN, TX #PodinLiveSXSW - Join Tea with Queen and J., Berry of Podcasts In Color, Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate, Estephanie of Bag Ladiez, and Sam of Inner Hoe Uprising for a podcast meetup on Wednesday March 13th, from 5-8pm at Licha’s Cantina, 1306 East 6th Street, Austin, TX. OPEN TO ALL NO SXSW BADGE REQUIRED.

If you are a SXSW badge holder please check out “Where Are The Blaccents” panel on March 13th at 11:00am: schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP88534 and “Tea with Queen and J.” Live at 12:30pm: schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP102955

Other Black centered events at SXSW
3/12 Rebel & Rest: www.rosarebellion.com/sxsw-2019
3/16 Blossom & Sol Culture and Natural Hair Festival: www.blossomandsolnaturalhairfestival.com
3/16 CareFreeBlackGirl Cookout @ SXSW: www.carefreeblackgirlsxsw.splashthat.com

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Learn more about activist Monica Roberts and help her continue to be Black trans voice in media
Twitter: twitter.com/TransGriot
Blog: transgriot.blogspot.com
Donate: www.paypal.com/donate/?token=AL-….x=US&locale.x=US
Website: www.transgriot.com

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Listen to Monica Roberts interview on Marsha’s Plate podcast “#71 Houston Rodeo Edition: Monica Roberts the Trans Griot”: Danella-xuc – 71-houston-rodeo-edition-monica-roberts-the-transgriot

This week’s closing clip features Rep. Rashida Tlaib confronting Rep. Mark Meadows during the House Oversight Committee hearing of Michael Cohen. Read John Blake’s analysis and watch the clip: www.cnn.com/2019/02/28/us/cohen…is-blake/index.html

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#195 Good Hair Day

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Our moment in Black hair gets unexpectedly emotional, we finally talk about that hate crime scandal that we didn’t never talk about yet, and the relationship between the Black & Latinx community is too nuanced for even that sentence.

This week’s hot list: Nobody beats “The Wiz” go watch it! We’re on this week’s Bag Ladiez podcast go listen, Desus and Mero are kind of an inspiration, that Grapevine episode (xenophobia & regional sh*t), “exotic”, Jussie Smollet and the problem with people and the internet, natural hair discrimination law, policy change over hearts and minds, free yoga vids for the people and more...

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
AUSTIN, TX #PodinLiveSXSW - Join Tea with Queen and J., Berry of Podcasts In Color, Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate, Estephanie of Bag Ladiez, and Sam of Inner Hoe Uprising for a podcast meetup on Wednesday March 13th, from 6-9pm at Licha’s Cantina, 1306 East 6th Street, Austin, TX. OPEN TO ALL NO SXSW BADGE REQUIRED.

If you are a SXSW badge holder please check out “Where Are The Blaccents” panel on March 13th at 11:00am: schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP88534 and “Tea with Queen and J.” Live at 12:30pm: schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP102955

BLACK LATINX WOMEN TO FOLLOW NOW
Aint I Latina: aintilatina.com
Aint I Latina IG: www.instagram.com/aintilatina/
Bag Ladiez Podcast: www.bgladiez.com
Zahira Kelly Cabrera aka @bad_dominicana IG: www.instagram.com/bad_dominicana/
We Come From Queens: www.wecomefromqueens.com

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Watch us on The Grapevine’s “The Relationship Between the Black and Latinx Community” episode: www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3brbDaquTQ&t=750s

Check us out on Three Fifs Podcast “An Extra Fif - Black Panther Timecapsule”: threefifspodcast.com/2019/02/16/an-…r-timecapsule/

Check out setu.yoga and create a Setu account for access to free yoga videos and learn more about their Setu For You Indiegogo here: www.indiegogo.com/projects/setu-for-you#/

New NYC hair discrimination law: www.nytimes.com/2019/02/18/style/…ew-york-city.html

This week’s closing clip features James Baldwin: www.instagram.com/p/BQdolBVDk-h/?u…id=19hj7g9eoopl1

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Naima and Janicia

Libations to our friend Domingo who helps keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

#194 Black on Black Coworkers

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Are you a sh*tty Black co-worker to your fellow Black co-workers? Why tho? Do you post your lover on social media or are they in witness protection? Also Frederick Douglass was a real one, house parties are supreme, and fvck American grammar.

This week’s hot list: We join the #rowlandstones kinda, house parties, seafood, Valentime’s day over Valentine’s day, what kind of hateful ass song is Chante’s got a man? Celebrate the work aunties! Reclaim Black History Month! Mental health breaks, self care, #payblackwomen, use your privilege to help your coworkers, fedex is wack, we miss eggplant fridays, we miss vine, we want teleportation now.

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
AUSTIN, TX - We’re going to SXSW 2019! Help us get there by hitting the paypal or patreon! If you'll be at SXSW check out Queen on the "Where Are the Blaccent's" panel 3/13 at 11:00 and "Tea with Queen and J." live 12:30! If you will be in Austin we will be having a meet up! More info to come!

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Help Shaina visit her family in Montserrat for the first time: www.gofundme.com/shaina039s-trip-…ot_co_campmgmt_m

Check out G.R.A.C.E. by Millie Max nail polish!
gracebymilliemax.com

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Check out episode 59 of QueerWOC: The Podcast! Black History Month origins conversation starts at minute 57:48 Queerwoc – 59hhh

Excerpt from Frederick Douglass’s infamous 4th of July Speech: www.pbs.org/wgbh/aia/part4/4h2927.html

This week’s closing clip features author Toni Morrison: www.instagram.com/thefreeblackwome…hid=yvflqe39xre9

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend Domingo who help’s keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#193 Blackface History Month

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Blackface is trying to ruin Black History Month, J.Lo is trying to ruin Black History Month, MAGA hats are trying to ruin Black history Month... but there’s still time.

This week’s hot list: Black History Month facts, kids in Blackface become adults in power, Kelly Rowland got bands, Kelly Rowland got a man, Kelly Rowland got plans, the Grammy’s, how we know J.Lo still doesn’t have any Black girlfriends, edge control, MAGA hat sightings, how to leverage your privilege against white supremacist patriarchal capitalism, and mad other sh*t.

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
HTwitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Please check out Cristina’s Latinx survey and pass it along to any and all who identify within the Latinx diaspora: goo.gl/forms/oF5ozHpyIVQwSbqH2

This week’s closing clip features comedian Godfrey on VladTV: www.instagram.com/p/BttRAdwD-hM/?u…hid=zhdptlf0oip9

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Naima and Janicia

Libations to our friend Domingo who helps keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#192 We Don't Know You

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We’re busting myths from “Black on Black” crime to what do vaginas really smell like, Black girl magic at the Superbowl that nobody and everybody watched, and a reminder that you’re important but everybody don’t know you.

This week’s hot list: Targeted anti-Black marketing vs. crime stats, Queen makes good grits (salt over sugar!), when and how to engage or not engage in teaching conversations on social media, buy your comics from a Black woman, vaginal health is vaginal wealth, protect Chloe x Halle, fauxcotting the Superbowl (hey Rod & Karen!), don’t be humble (it’s wack) but show humility (it’s cute), Black Enterprise probably fired their journalism staff (but were you even reading it tho?), and other compelling sh!t!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
AUSTIN, TX - We’re going to SXSW 2019! Help us get there by hitting the paypal or patreon!

PAY BLACK WOMEN
The Honey Pot is the first complete feminine care system that cleanses, protects, and balances your vagina Powered by herbs. Made by humans with vaginas for people with vaginas. Tampons, pads, washes & more at thehoneypot.co

Visit www.amalgamphilly.com and order your comics from a Black woman owned shop!

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
We referenced the BlackEnterprise.com article “16 Things Black People Say Or Do That Annoy White People At Work (And In General)” but we care too much about you to include a direct link.

Chicago Woman Secure’s Hotel Rooms for Homeless During Polar Vortex
NPR- Transcript for the podcast weekend edition: www.npr.org/2019/02/02/69091675…s-during-frigid-pol

This week’s closing clip features actor/social media comedian Lala Milan at the BET screening for Boomerang: www.facebook.com/LaLaSizaHands89/…830688383946149/

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend Domingo who help’s keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#191 Dark Skinned Daddy

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Don’t use your dad a ‘the friend’ in your “I have a Black friend” story, the politics of confronting men on the street or anywhere and why men be so scared of men who are also scared of them cuz they stay scared, and culture vs. ageism.

This week’s hot list: How to survive Gina Rodriguez (but we not really talking about her because ENOUGH), communicating with your partner like a human instead of a wounded rhino, how to say something when you see something #SurvivingRKelly -ish, the “b” in lgbtqia+ stands for bisexual (don’t act like you forgot), Black American cultural dismissal, auntie-ism, whether to say uncle or nah, and mad other ish!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Check out @Blactina’s #darkskinneddaddy challenge on instagram www.instagram.com/blactina/

This week’s closing clip feature Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin in conversation: www.facebook.com/ATLBlackStar/vid…870653016395206/

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Naima and Janicia

Libations to our friend Domingo who helps keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#190 Who's The Fairest Of Them All

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… One of our favorite shows does an episode on colorism but did they really even wanna talk about it? The politics of what’s “fair”, People who can’t read arguing over books, And will the next generation suck less than we do?

This week’s hot list: Black Comic Book Festival & Black Villains Matter, that Twerk video is Black joy, Fyre fest scam, that Black-ish episode and light skinned privilege (again), stop saying fair - words still mean things, redbone vs. brownin', you mad at Marie Kondo or you racist/xenophobic? More partners, better sex, how racist is Gen Z, and mad other ish.

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
BROOKLYN, NYC Sunday, January 27th 5-8pm Join Queen for Ms. Vixen + CareFreeBlackGirl Vision board and Intention Setting Workshop at Cafe Con Libros Cafe & Bookstore in Brooklyn! Tickets & info here: msvixenirl.eventbrite.com

BROOKLYN Saturday, January 26th Join Inner Hoe Uprising for a sex positive dance party as they welcome coe-hoe Rob home from active duty! Ihuwinteriscumming.eventbrite.com

NYC Join Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on January 28, 2019! Tix & info: www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegre…-ladiez-live/
Visit Bag Ladiez website: www.bgladiez.com

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Maryann Rolle gofund me: www.gofundme.com/exuma-point-fyre…t-fyre-fest-debt

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Watch J. on the “Black Villains Matter” panel at Black Comic Book Festival 2019: livestream.com/schomburgcenter/e…9pZkWqgbGHB1Afxrk

Watch Queen on the “Who Tells The Story of Our Future” panel at Werk It Festival 2019: www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibN5i-1DKeo
OR Listen to the audio here: www.wnycstudios.org/story/who-tells…re-werk-it-2018

Gen Z might be more chill: www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2019….c37eb12a6dde

This week’s closing clip features TMZ’s clip of Erykah Badu wilding: www.tmz.com/videos/1_jbi1xmvu/

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friend Domingo who help’s keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#189 Black Ass Feminism

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this spot of tea episode… how to avoid becoming a human sacrifice in the name of Blackness, what the fvck is womanism, and how to get your Black joy on in the face of white consumption

This week’s hot list: Go see Big Freedia, Jason Mamoa is a complete sentence, brown babies for every body! Protect your neck, womanism vs feminism vs Black feminism vs does it matter, what do academics really do, and mad other ish!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
HARLEM, NYC Saturday, January 19th J. will be on a panel at the Black Comic Book Festival at The Schomburg museum! Supervillains: A Reflection of Us panel begins at 10:00am. Free RSVP & full schedule: www.eventbrite.com/e/the-schomburg…ets-53316870194

BROOKLYN, NYC Sunday, January 27th 5-8pm Join Queen for Ms. Vixen + CareFreeBlackGirl Vision board and Intention Setting Workshop at Cafe Con Libros Cafe & Bookstore in Brooklyn! Tickets & info here: msvixenirl.eventbrite.com

BROOKLYN Saturday, January 26th Join Inner Hoe Uprising for a sex positive dance party as they welcome coe-hoe Rob home from active duty! Tix & info: Ihuwinteriscumming.eventbrite.com

NYC Join Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on Monday, January 28, 2019! Tix & info: www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegre…-ladiez-live/
Visit Bag Ladiez website: www.bgladiez.com

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Referenced article re womanism: www.thoughtco.com/womanist-feminis…finition-3528993

Referenced article re Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: www.vox.com/identities/2017/3/1…en-comments-apology

This week’s closing clip is by @tpmiller305 on instagram: www.instagram.com/tpmiller305/

Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, learn more about Ohene: ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

# 188 Couldn't Be Me Girl

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We’re shedding old friendships, setting new affirmations and all kinds of fun shit before an in depth convo about #SurvivingRKelly in real life, the docuseries, why it might not go far enough, and who shouldn’t have been included.

Trigger Warning: #SurvivingRKelly conversation including discussions of rape, grooming, assault & other abuses starts at moment 48:36 and ends at 2:02:10

This week’s hot list: Witches & sorcery & Black girl magic, ending patriarchal friendships with pizazz, processing #SurvivingRKelly and reliving old sh!t, being respectable won’t save you, the fast girl myth, complicit adults, communal accountability, sex tape vs. rape tape (words mean things), celebrity victim blamers (why was Charlechew even in that doc?), and then light and fun sh!t, we promise!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

EVENTS
HARLEM, NYC Saturday, January 19th J. will be on a panel at the Black Comic Book Festival at The Schomburg museum! Supervillains: A Reflection of Us panel begins at 10:00am. Free RSVP & full schedule: www.eventbrite.com/e/the-schomburg…ets-53316870194

BROOKLYN, NYC Sunday, January 27th 5-8pm Join Queen for Ms. Vixen + CareFreeBlackGirl Vision board and Intention Setting Workshop at Cafe Con Libros Cafe & Bookstore in Brooklyn! Tickets & info here: msvixenirl.eventbrite.com

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Check out Adorned By Chi, a lifestyle brand for misfits & magical girls: adornedbychi.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/adornedbychi/

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Listen to the latest episode of “A Little Juju Podcast”: User-991694293 – New-years-reading

Join Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on January 28, 2019! Tix & info: www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegre…-ladiez-live/
Visit Bag Ladiez website: www.bgladiez.com

Scholly & growninsh are partnering to help pay off your student loan debt. You could have up to 125,000 in debt paid off. Learn more here: myscholly.com/grownish
And here: verysmartbrothas.theroot.com/if-you-hav…1831488830

This week’s closing clip features Kelechi Okafor (twitter @kelechnekoff): twitter.com/kelechnekoff/status…48872953861/video/1

This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell

Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#187 T'was The Night Before Kwanzaa

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We put our womanist race nerd spin on the Kwanzaa principles (what are thooooooose!) and show you how and why to incorporate that shit into your everyday life, we’ve got a moment in Black hair for the bearded people in your life, and how to build community in a world full of people who don’t know how to act.

This week’s hot list: working with toxic whiteness, Kwanzaa, buy black, idie comics, beard butter is good for you, Janice Dotson, the Sandra Bland act, Donors choose, buy them kids ipads, Black elitism, everybody can’t say “sis” sis, and more!

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PAY BLACK WOMEN
Help Nadejah Whitted fit her classroom with ipads: donorschoose.org/Miss.Whitted

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Read “Tea with Queen and J.: A Podcast for Women Who Won’t Be Silenced” medium.com/@DrewBreez/tea-with…BVlLGYxSMuGrnpKVTbg

Support “Ajala” Indie comicbook Kickstarter: www.kickstarter.com/projects/171536…keRKhCJ-D4O5dYQ

Check out King Butta Love’s natural beard butter & soaps: www.etsy.com/shop/KingButtaLove?ref=shop_sugg
Instagram:www.instagram.com/king_butta_love/

Join Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on January 28, 2019! Tix & info: www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegre…-ladiez-live/
Visit Bag Ladiez website: www.bgladiez.com

Read Essence article on Janice Dotson: www.essence.com/news/mentally-ill…es-in-jail-texas/

Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/