#150 Fix Your Wig

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… It’s our 150th episode! Beyonce gives us Beychella and we pledge Beta Delta Kappa, Auntie Iyanla is wilding, Taylor Swift is a demogorgon and when we fight police brutality, what are we fighting for, do you know why you’re here and that white supremacy is the enemy?

This week’s hot list: #PodinLiveNYC, building community, On My Block, managing our living spaces, The Black Joy Mixtape, step your Kwanzaa up, puff puff pass, the people’s Beyonce, police brutality and the bad apple theory vs. organized yt supremacy, fix your neighbor’s weave, Dope On Arrival, who’s checking in on Iyanla, and why is Taylor Swift still allowed… to do anything?

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EVENTS

NEW YORK - #PodinLiveNYC is back! Join us Saturday, April 21st at 4:00 for #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meet-up, we’re hanging out with some of our favorite Black podcasts in NYC and their listeners at Von (3 Bleeker Street) for an afternoon kick it session: www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-…362531?ref=estw

WASHINGTON, DC - Queen and J. will be joining a panel at We The Culture Podcast Conference: The Age of the Digital Griot, a historic, two-day conference aimed at creating a more inclusive podcasting industry, April 27-28! Tickets & Information: www.eventbrite.com/e/we-the-cultur…ets-43090338362

PAY BLACK WOMEN

Shop Dope On Arrival NYC for Black ass shirts, leggings and swimwear! www.dopeonarrivalnyc.com/

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Check out this week’s episode of The Black Joy Mixtape: Theblackjoymixtape – 54-metooremastered-be-careful-with-us

This week’s closing clip features Vince Staples saying out loud in front of yt people what we all know about R. Kelly as Nadeska tries to silence him. Way to go sis: twitter.com/aboynamedandy/statu…00111296376832?s=21

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/

Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#149 Resistance & Brunch

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up!
 
On this spot of tea episode… Can you resist in the workplace without losing your whole ass job? The importance of brunch; Pregnancy, poverty and the patriarchy; loving yourself and your sexuality when your body doesn’t do what you want it to do; and we review Cardi B.’s first studio album because we’re from the Bronx and we have to.
 
This week’s hot list: Brunch, Cardi B., Invasion of Privacy, resistance and anxiety, microaggressions, cosplay, men rappers cosigning woman rapper’s freedom papers, babies… do we need them? Dating while Black and womanist, Queen doesn’t want to “catch the holy ghost” or “praise dance”, physical pain and sexual healing and some feel good letters.

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EVENTS
 
NEW YORK - #PodinLiveNYC is back! Join us Saturday, April 21st at 4:00 for #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meet-up, we’re hanging out with some of our favorite Black podcasts in NYC and their listeners at Von (3 Bleeker Street) for an afternoon kick it session: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-podcast-meet-up-tickets-44528362531?ref=estw


WASHINGTON, DC - Queen and J. will be joining a panel at We The Culture Podcast Conference: The Age of the Digital Griot, a historic, two-day conference aimed at creating a more inclusive podcasting industry, April 27-28! Tickets & Information: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/we-the-culture-podcast-conference-the-age-of-the-digital-griot-tickets-43090338362

 
NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Listen to Inner Hoe Uprising’s “Sex, Romance & Disability” with special guest Kym Oliver: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/sex-romance-disability

Read Tina’s (@nice_white_lady) twitter thread of resources on sex & disability: https://twitter.com/nice_white_lady/status/969241416177156096?s=21


Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/
 
Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.
 
Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on Instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/
 
Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#148 Tolerance Is Not Enough

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up!
 
On this episode… We celebrate trans visibility day and ask are we simply tolerant of people’s differences or have we graduated to acceptance yet? We ask for trigger warnings, and review what the internet taught us about domestic violence. Also, as sexually liberated womanist race nerds how can we give little girls and femme’s the tools to freedom without enduring the trauma we went through to get here? Is it even possible?

 
This week’s hot list: #PodinLiveNYC, building community, mental health, trigger warnings, #TransDayOfVisibility, tolerance vs acceptance, who bears the labor of learning, domestic violence and how to protect one another, the bolt bag, Sesi Magazine, voter suppression, why RuPaul is an aunt and not an auntie, fragile masculinity, and the horrors of tinder and the patriarchy
 
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EVENTS
 
NEW YORK - #PodinLiveNYC is back! Join us Saturday, April 21st at 4:00 for #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meet-up, we’re hanging out with some of our favorite Black podcasts in NYC and their listeners at Von (3 Bleeker Street) for an afternoon kick it session: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-podcast-meet-up-tickets-44528362531?ref=estw


WASHINGTON, DC - Queen and J. will be joining a panel at We The Culture Podcast Conference: The Age of the Digital Griot, a historic, two-day conference aimed at creating a more inclusive podcasting industry, April 27-28! Tickets & Information: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/we-the-culture-podcast-conference-the-age-of-the-digital-griot-tickets-43090338362

 
PAY BLACK WOMEN

Check out our friend Estephanie aka Cinthia’s new website! Shop art, sage and more at https://www.cinpim.com/


NOTES & EXTRA TEA
 
Learn more about #TransDayOfVisibility: http://www.transstudent.org/tdov

Trans led organizations to donate to:
https://www.blacktrans.org/
http://www.twocc.us/

Listen to these podcasts featuring trans & gender non-binary hosts:
Marsha’s Plate: Black Trans Thought - https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc
Support Marsha's Plate: Black Trans Thought - https://www.patreon.com/MarshasPlate
Hoodrat to Headwraps - https://soundcloud.com/user-501838661/tracks
Inner Hoe Uprising - https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/tracks

Help in the fight against domestic violence. Check out Beverly Gooden’s (@bevtgooden) hashtag #WhyIStayed and support the “Bolt Bag” project and share it with someone who can benefit from it http://www.ellamaefoundation.org/boltbag
 
Send a subscription to Sesi magazine to a child or teen in your life now:  https://sesimag.com/

Learn more about Crystal Mason’s sentence of 5 years for “voter fraud”: http://atlantablackstar.com/2018/03/31/heres-happened-3-white-people-committed-voter-fraud-vs-black-texas-woman/


This week’s closing clip features Black trans woman and drag performer Octavia Saint Laurent in the film “Paris Is Burning”: https://youtu.be/Ezc4CnZ8FQQ

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/
 
Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.
 
Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/
 
Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#147 Mercury Is In Reggaeton

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up!
 
On this spot of tea episode… Killer Mike wants to arm Wakanda with guns, the NRA doesn’t care about Black people, and agency, affirmations & pronouns. Call people what the fvck they want to be called.
 
This week’s hot list: Killer Mike is wildin, aunties vs aunts, is it a ‘podcast’ or a ‘pahwdcast’, what does it mean to be called “girl”?, we #sayhername and honor Linda Brown, Brown v. Board of Ed, Queen throws a yt woman of color sized temper tantrum in Target, and language, sizeism, fatphobia and loving draggings.

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EVENTS
 
NEW YORK - #PodinLiveNYC is back! Join us Saturday, April 21st at 4:00 for #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meet-up, we’re hanging out with some of our favorite Black podcasts in NYC and their listeners at Von (3 Bleeker Street) for an afternoon kick it session: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-podcast-meet-up-tickets-44528362531?ref=estw

WASHINGTON, DC - Queen and J. will be joining a panel at We The Culture Podcast Conference: The Age of the Digital Griot, a historic, two-day conference aimed at creating a more inclusive podcasting industry, April 27-28! Tickets & Information: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/we-the-culture-podcast-conference-the-age-of-the-digital-griot-tickets-43090338362

 
NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Deadline to apply for the SOZE NYC Call for Public Art is 3/31/18! Apply today! https://www.wearesoze.com/call-for-public-art
 
Check out Marsha’s Plate: Black Trans Talk podcast! Listen to Diamond Stylz recap of our SXSW experience now: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/25-aint-no-white-like-sxswhite-black-love-bombs-and-micro-aggressions

Listen to Still Processing’s “We Love Auties” episode now: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/we-love-aunties/id1151436460?i=1000407134869&mt=2

Be sure to follow @rodimusprime on twitter and listen to The Black Guy Who Tips Podcast! Check out his Killer Mike thread: https://twitter.com/rodimusprime/status/978014754227785730?s=21

Learn more about Brown v. Board of Ed’s Linda Brown: https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2018/mar/26/linda-brown-brown-v-board-education-case-dies-76/?utm_campaign=shareaholic&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=socialnetwork

Check out Thic Roots podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thic-roots/tracks

This week’s closing clip features Naomi Wadler’s speech at the March For Our Lives in Washington, DC. Watch her speech and others here: https://www.cbsnews.com/live-news/march-for-our-lives-2018-03-24-live-stream-updates-today/?linkId=49647933

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/
 
Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.
 

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/
 
Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#146 Bad Bitch Roundtable @ SXSW

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up!
 
On this episode… We recap the Black Baddie Brigades podcast experience at SXSW, explore some “tragic mulatto” shit, and appropriation vs appreciation, do you n*ggas know the difference?
 
This week’s hot list: We came, we saw, we destroyed all things SXSW, Amirah Vann kills it on HTGAWM, the great Bruno Mars debate, sister circles are everything you didn’t know you needed, J. is still not a lady, pay Black women, who are you talking to and what gaze are you most concerned with? Who gets access to conferences like SXSW and why? The targeted deportation of undocumented activists, and as always you are enough!
 
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EVENTS
 
NEW YORK - #PodinLiveNYC is back! Join us Saturday, April 21st at 4:00 for #PodinLiveNYC: Black Podcast Meet-up, we’re hanging out with some of our favorite Black podcasts in NYC and their listeners at Von (3 Bleeker Street) for an afternoon kick it session. SAVE THE DATE!

WASHINGTON, DC - Queen and J. will be joining a panel at We The Culture Podcast Conference: The Age of the Digital Griot, a historic, two-day conference aimed at creating a more inclusive podcasting industry, April 27-28! Tickets & Information: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/we-the-culture-podcast-conference-the-age-of-the-digital-griot-tickets-43090338362

 
PAY BLACK WOMEN
Check out Francesca Sol Chaney’s vegan pop-up restaurant “Sol Sips” in Brooklyn for smoothies and small bites! Help Francesca establish a permanent location by supporting Sol Sips Midnight Brunch on March 24th! Ticket & Information: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sol-sips-midnight-brunch-tickets-44261669846
We read from Tanya Flink's article in Livekindly to help share Francesca’s story: https://www.livekindly.co/21-year-old-opens-vegan-restaurant-to-prove-wellness-isnt-just-for-the-elite/


NOTES & EXTRA TEA
 
Sign the petition to release immigrant rights activist Alejandra Pablos from Detention: https://action.mijente.net/petitions/release-immigrant-rights-activist-alejandra-pablos-from-detention

Check out our guest spot on QueerWOC: The Podcast’s LIVE at SXSW! LISTEN NOW→ https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/b3sxsw

This week’s closing clip is “Cocky AF” by Megan Thee Stallion: https://youtu.be/yX-KiXI3qOA

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/
 
Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.
 
Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/
 
Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#145 White People Ruined Apes

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up!

On this spot of tea episode… Why does white government care about Black hair? Also the television series ‘Atlanta’, Black comedy, and why Katt Williams is a muthafuck!n

This week’s hot list: If you’re listening to this we’re at SXSW and you should come to our event tonight! How many times have you seen Black Panther? Locs, dreads and a moment in Black hair, J. may have broke her teachers nose, Donald Glover’s Atlanta is back and its just as good as we remember. Katt Williams is “that one uncle we all have”, Marlon Wayans, comedy & Netflix specials, funny vs problematic. How white folks ruined the joy of Apes, how to keep classmates and coworkers from treating you like ‘the b!tch’. And as always YOU ARE ENOUGH.

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EVENTS

FREE MEET UP FOR ALL: Are you in Austin, TX but not going to SXSW? Join us and QueerWOC for a #PodinLiveSXSW meetup on Tuesday March 13th from 5pm until at Licha’s Cantina, 1306 E 6th St, Austin, TX 78702

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

“U.S. Court Rules Dreadlock Ban During Hiring Process Legal” : https://www.nbcnews.com/news/nbcblk/u-s-court-rules-dreadlock-ban-during-hiring-process-legal-n652211

This week’s closing clip features Lena Waithe’s speech at the 2018 ESSENCE Black Women In Hollywood Awards: https://www.essence.com/awards-events/red-carpet/black-women-hollywood/lena-waithe-lgbt-come-out-black-women-hollywood?utm_campaign=essence&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social&xid=essence_socialflow_twitter

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/

Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#143 Oppressed... But Make It Fashion

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up!

On this spot of tea episode… Black people are not fire breathing monsters. Just a reminder. You fvcking sh!theads.

This week’s hot list: Can you love your body if your seems to hates you? Sexless & sex positive, Black Panther is the gift that keeps on giving, SXSW, tone policing Black women, MoNique drags Lenárd for his default setting of hating Black women, a moment in Black hair and the tignon laws of Louisiana, Korryn Gaines settlement, contrasting reactions to protesters against access to guns and gun violence, and R.Kelly banned from Wakanda – he tried it tho!

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EVENTS

Meet us at SXSW! Austin, TX! We’ll be joining QueerWOC: The Podcast for a live show at the SXSW Podcast Stage on Monday March 12th at 9:30am! More info: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2018/events/PP99023

Are you in Austin, TX but not going to SXSW? Join us and QueerWOC for a #PodinLiveSXSW meetup on Tuesday March 13th from 5pm until at Licha’s Cantina, 1306 E 6th St, Austin, TX 78702

PAY BLACK WOMEN

Check out https://arewanyc.com/ for Afro-eclectic fashion accessories!

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Flash back to when we first discussed Monique and pay equity on episode #138 Hands Off Harriet: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/138-hands-off-harriet

Check out J.’s guest spot on The Extraordinary Negroes “An Extraordinary Black Panther Review”: https://soundcloud.com/the-extraordinary-negroes/an-extraordinary-black-panther

There is a Wakanda Curriculum! Created by Tess Raser (@traser03 on twitter): https://docs.google.com/document/d/19wRga_SppkMxLazphpLE4B9GGUtoufGHNSrSavEjXbs/mobilebasic

And The Black Panther Reader! Created by Robert “Tito” Soto-Carrion (@BXtito on twitter): https://docs.google.com/document/d/167vHXdc6fNXTJY-Id3UgRqPeE-c58q2ZHYyYRAaNcGY/edit

This week’s closing clip features Viola Davis discuss pay inequity: https://twitter.com/CHUUZUZ/status/964597474064203776/video/1

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/

Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#142 Womanist Race Nerds of Wakanda

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking politics, pop-culture and liberation over tea. Drink up!

On this spot of tea episode… Have you seen Black Panther? Go watch it, come back and listen to us dissect and disrupt Malcolm & Martin comparisons; explore the real life erasure of Black women’s brilliance and a womanist race nerd perspective on how we’ve never seen anything quite like this.

This week’s hot list: Black Panther, #CrownWakanda, Black love, listen to Black women, Killmonger: An American Fvckboi in Wakanda, W’kabi: A Nice Fvckboi of Wakanda, M’Baku: The Meal of Wakanda, respect Black shades in casting, sidebar: why are all the #ThisIsUs Randall’s different shades of brown??? That and a bunch of other Black ass commentary.

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EVENTS

Meet us at SXSW! Austin, TX! We’ll be joining QueerWOC: The Podcast for a live show at the SXSW Podcast Stage on March 12th at 9:30am! More info: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2018/events/PP99023

Are you in Austin but not going to SXSW? Join us for a casual meet up after work on March 13th! Details to come.

NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Our podcast friends at The Fanbros Show not only put on an amazing Black Panther premier event but their #CrownWakandaInitiative includes providing free screenings of the Black Panther film to groups of school age children, a variety of enriching community building field trips, and other educational youth programs. Learn more and donate here: https://www.gofundme.com/crown-wakanda-curriculum

 
This week’s closing clip features gal-dem.com chatting with Lupita Nyongo & Gurira: https://www.facebook.com/galdemzine/videos/1405953372844084/


Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/


Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.


Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#141 Black Ass Sexuality (with Ev'Yan Whitney)

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking politics, pop-culture and liberation over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Special guest, sexuality doula Ev’Yan Whitney joins us to discuss all things sex, healing and polyamory. Also, we pay Black women, talk child support, mass incarceration & periods.

This week’s hot list: It’s Black Panther week! Black laughter does not equal Black ignorance, Flint still doesn’t have clean water, ‘bad-b!tch’ is an action word, so is non-monogamy, urban burlesque, sexual oppression, sexual healing, sexual freedom, The Sexually Liberated Woman, periods, mass incarceration, the patriarchy in child support and more!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj
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EVENTS
Meet us at SXSW! Austin, TX! We’ll be joining QueerWOC: The Podcast for a live show at the SXSW Podcast Stage on March 12th at 9:30am! More info: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2018/events/PP99023
Are you in Austin but not going to SXSW? Join us for a casual meet up after work on March 13th! Details to come.

TODAY’S GUEST
Learn more about our guest and sexuality doula Ev’Yan Whitney by visiting her website: http://sexloveliberation.com/
Listen to Ev’Yan’s podcast “The Sexually Liberated Woman” on Apple Podcasts, Soundcloud and Stitcher: https://soundcloud.com/evyanwhitney/tracks
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexloveliberation/

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Visit City Republik for wigs, jewelry and apparel: https://www.cityrepublik.com/
Check out Maya Stewart’s handbags & accessories: http://www.mayastewart.com/

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Help Little Miss Flint collect letters of encouragement for children in Flint, Michigan still living without standard American access to clean water. Follow her on twitter @LittleMissFlint for mor information. Letters can be mailed to Mari Copeny, PO Box 138, Flint MI 48501 or sent via email to maricopeny07@gmail.com

Learn more about urban burlesque and Jaminah Legohn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/artoflegohn/

Visit one of Ev’Yan’s favorite tumblr pages, Poly Role Models: http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/

Learn more about women’s menstrual health and mass incarceration: https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/arizona-inmates-periods-prison-women-wash/
Take Action: https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/arizona-inmates-periods-prison-women-wash/

This week’s closing clip features Symone D. Sanders on CNN: https://www.instagram.com/p/Be-2BBIluq1/

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Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#140 Black. Enough.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking politics, pop-culture and liberation over tea. Drink up!

On this spot of tea episode… Does your weave scream “I only date white men”? If it does, we still fvck with you. Can Black folks assert their brand of Blackness without sh!tting on everyone else’s? Also meditation, boycott shaming and the caste system of American capitalism.

This week’s hot list: We didn’t watch the Superbowl but we still found sh!t to celebrate, JT is washed, #JanetJacksonAppreciationDay, we announce the winner of our Black Panther contest, working with customers while Black, those 2 Dope Queens specials, what kind of Black girl are you, and you are still enough!

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NOTES & EXTRA TEA

This week’s closing clip is “Night Time Meditation for Black Women” by Jus Jivin. Follow him on facebook!: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-with-queen-and-j/id841142610
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Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#139 Talk To Me Nice

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking politics, pop-culture and liberation over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We discuss African American Vernacular English – Do you speak well? Can you talk good and does that sh!t even matter. Then we pay Black women, get good news about marijuana and throw some of your faves in the pit.

This week’s hot list: Hamilton is lit, colorism, you are still enough, woke privilege, Black Panther approaches! The stigma of Black America dialect/AAVE, language privilege, light skinned privilege, to be a wife or nah, call out culture maybe, racist greetings at work, a change in felony status for Californians, and can you be successful and avoid that hot mess of a misogynoirist morning show?

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Visit Café Con Libros feminist bookstore in Brooklyn, NY! https://www.cafeconlibrosbk.com/

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NOTES & EXTRA TEA

“I’m is talking right”: How the stigma around Black language holds us back from liberation: http://afropunk.com/2018/01/im-talking-right-stigma-around-black-language-holds-us-back-liberation/

Californians can now get rid of their old weed convictions: https://news.vice.com/en_us/article/xw4m9z/california-is-offering-one-million-weed-felons-a-clean-slate

Oakland Gives Weed Convicts Opportunity To Open Marijuana Businesses As Reparations: https://www.vibe.com/2017/07/oakland-weed-business-reparations/

This week’s closing clip is features Angela Davis: https://www.facebook.com/AFROPUNK/videos/10154505324126623/?hc_ref=ARQZRhhJDgSI39RwdOCAj47ZB9GIlUlqDBXglzx7ZQm3YQTCjdXWJ6E4M7W3Kj3WuC8

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Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#138 Hands Off Harriet

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking politics, pop-culture and liberation over tea. Drink up!

On this spot of tea episode… Is Mo’Nique a greedy, selfish, loud, angry Black woman? Or are we a white supremacist patriarchal capitalistic society that hates Black women and puts property over people? Take a guess.

This week’s hot list: We’re on new podcast list! White feminism brings the pink pussy hats to Harlem, facebook censorship, Ciara’s trippin, marriage as validity, pick me, choose me, get chose, Mo’Nique is gonna throw shade if we can’t get paid and Black folks are standing up to tell her to sit down (it’s weird), Black women and comedy, Kwanzaa 365 & mad other ish!

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NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Check out episode #89 “White Cisterhood”, for our thoughts on the first Women’s March and a refresh in white feminism: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/89-a-spot-of-tea-white-cisterhood

We’re featured in The Grio! #BlackExcellence: 5 Podcasts You Need In Your Life Right Now: https://thegrio.com/2018/01/20/black-podcasts-must-listen/

Mo’Nique’s call for boycott: https://www.instagram.com/p/BeJSQ_5jaHV/?taken-by=_msvixen_

Watch Mo’Nique’s interview with Sway: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcVFxgm2S1I

Check out some of the treats from Black owned businesses that Domingo sent us in our Kwanzaa care package!
Personal care: https://www.faharinaturals.com/
Coffee & Cane Sugar products: http://www.zesaraw.com/
Cookies: https://www.tonyascookies.com/
Maxine Waters & Michelle Obama Stickers: https://www.teesinthetrap.com/
Nerd Card Revoked & Girls Night Out Cards: https://cardsforallpeople.com/

This week’s closing clip is features Bernie Mac in “Don’t Be A Menace To Society While Drinking Your Juice In the Hood”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zrl2Dm8Rwtk

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/

Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#137 You're Not My Mum

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking politics, pop-culture and liberation over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… White supremacy is killing us from the inside, but we tell you how to buck the system so don’t panic. H&M finally gets a taste of their own customer service. And before we get started we remind ourselves and everyone else that YOU ARE ENOUGH!

This week’s hot list: Black Comic Book Fest was lit (#blackcomicbookfestnyc), Black Girl in Om podcast, go see Proud Mary (or don't, do you), protest shaming, abundance vs. scarcity, H&M protests in South Africa, property vs. people, America is killing Black women, this episode is bananas... no monkey.

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NOTES & EXTRA TEA


Check out Black Girl In Om podcast Episode 27: The Glow Gospel with Latham Thomas: http://www.blackgirlinom.com/podcast/


Learn more about Black women’s mortality rates here: https://www.propublica.org/article/nothing-protects-black-women-from-dying-in-pregnancy-and-childbirth


Check out "This Racism Is Killing Me" by Code Switch podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/this-racism-is-killing-me-inside/id1112190608?i=1000399493123&mt=2


This week’s closing clip “Proud Mary” trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQ1Zcv54USA

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/

Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at http://www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#136 What's Your Rachel I.Q.?

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking politics, pop-culture and liberation over tea. Drink up!

On this spot of tea episode… We’ve been doing a Black centric podcast for almost four years only to find out that some of you don’t know what Black is or where to start. So we take a deep breath and discuss Amara La Negra, explore Blackness, who gets to claim it, what that sh!t really means in the US & throughout the Black diaspora, and the global anti-Blackness that is not as foreign to Black Americans as they think.

This week’s hot list: That Love & Hip Hop racism, Amara La Negra, xenophobia vs. anti-Blackness vs. colorism, Black identity, the African diaspora, transatlantic slave trade, what is "regular Black", your racial I.Q. and mad other problematic sh!t.

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NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Learn more about Lucumi: http://www.okayafrica.com/10-things-you-need-to-know-before-practicing-lucumi/

This week’s closing clip features a young Oprah Winfrey: https://twitter.com/_MsVixen_/status/950369017805623296/video/1

 

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Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and online at www.ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.TFlintVoices.com

#135 New Year New Ooooow

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking politics, pop-culture and liberation over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… It’s a new year and we’re fresh off of setting our intentions during Kwanzaa. But does celebrating Kwanzaa have to be a political act? Can we live? Also, mental health tools, #PayBlackWomen, and Tr*mp’s mission to sh!t on everything we love and how to protect the land in spite of it.

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NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Trump Slashes Size of Bears Ears and Grand Staircase Monuments: https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/04/us/trump-bears-ears.html

Support the coalition of tribes fighting back: http://bearsearscoalition.org/

This week’s closing clip features Erica Garner on Democracy Now. Rest in Power Erica. https://www.instagram.com/p/BdQqMu9HK4P/

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/

Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and online at www.ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.TFlintVoices.com